Recently, a thread of emails among a professional networking group for those seeking employment resulted in a number of emotional and unprofessional responses from some members. There is no doubt that some regretted their outbursts but trying to take something back once it has been posted is as futile an endeavour as trying to change that of a first impression. Even those individuals with a long history of professionalism got caught up in the moment and although there were some heartfelt apologies offered, nothing could reverse the initial impression from one negative comment. Ending this thread of conversation, which was quickly tarnishing the professional images of many who became involved was in every one’s best interest and all involved did, until 10 days later when someone decided to dig up the “dirt” selecting certain emails, singling out those individuals and then forwarding an email offering unsolicited, irrelevant advice to the entire organization! Did this person feel left out of the original thread of inappropriate and unprofessional emails? The consolation to those who were singled out, yet again, is that this person has now added their name as the last person involved in this display of unprofessional conduct and in so doing, will  likely overshadow all of the previous names. What were they thinking? 

 

Key components that influence your professional image in person are your appearance, confidence and assertiveness. Despite this, most senior executives and professionals will tentatively approach a registration table when attending a networking event with a less that confident demeanor and wait to be spoken to.  This is a professional networking meeting! Say hello, introduce yourself! If you are not sure you are in the right place, ASK! Don’t wait to see if someone familiar remembers your name, introduce yourself. This is your opportunity to stand out as a professional! You may have met someone before but don’t expect that person to remember your name. Do you want to leave a negative impression? Most people will feel bad if they can’t remember your name so don’t give them the chance to even think about it, introduce yourself. Say your name and then say it again. Are you there to network? Do you want to be remembered? Do you want to leave a positive and professional impression? 

 

Are you presenting a professional image, online and off? Everything you say and do could be judged by someone so think carefully. Your comments or your actions could influence someone who is in a position to provide you with your next opportunity.